Today's effect is Yesterday's Cause Sometimes when I listen somebody who is complaining about how acquaintances treat him/ her badly or how poor situation they are, may be they will never think that is caused by their own selves. Today, I heard that a lady complained to another acquaintances about being boycotted by her teamates. In my observation daily, the result is totally made by herself. She was bad temper and threw her anger to all the new comers, and also threaten them said ,"I am so close with Japanese(in A Japan company), don't make me angry". She always implied that she has "special relation" with a managerial senior who is more than 20 years older than her etc........sigh Today, she pretend she is so sad because being boycott. Actually, colleagues are all smart guys, no one will boycott a good person. Today's effect is Yesterday's Cause.