22/11/14@Central Backpackers hostel, Birmingham When we say we can't understand y ppl in city of England always party, smoke cigarette or weed or even take drugs They often think it's normal.Local ppl comment it depends. Some ppl would do that but it's not uncommon to see We question, we criticise, we judge something bad about that It's correct and normal to ask, right? Hold on. Why not trying to stand with them to think? Are they taking it for granted ? No. They may not. Like Archie, a little British boy, saying that the red leaves aren't special at all. Those trees are only tall. I said, you may think its normal as u can often see that in the autumn or until now But for ppl in hk, ppl tart it as a sightseeing spot, just because it's very very rare to see red leaves in our place. My friends r jealous of me watching thus everyday. We just need to get out the house then we can see. When we try to look at the same thing from another angle, u may not think its tall only. Perhaps Its a kind of lifestyle and,u know , lifestyle doesn't judge any We won't judge ppl going to cafe to drink a cup of coffee even coffee isn't good for health as well That's the freedom to choice about lifestyle. As a outsider, we may know it's not that healthy or we don't see y ppl do that Why not admitting that it's somehow a kind of lifestyle or even culture ? If u think u can't stand them solely because u can't agree y they sometimes take drugs and smoke Give urself one more chance : Try to get along with them If u can't agree with their other beliefs or behaviours Or more importantly, they don't treat u as important Then don't blame and try to change them anymore It's not our fault and please leave.