The so-called love, nothing more than the details. The so-called love ability, the so-called human feelings, that is simple, that is, understand each other understand Because understand, so share open, understanding, distressed with. A girl asked me: what is the meaning of the together? She has a fun hobby in her eyes 8 points boyfriend, also in the feelings of a lot of pay. What is the problem? Perhaps all very simple life details. For example, every time she has to eat her boyfriend to eat rice, her boyfriend do not want to accompany her to eat a face. Such as men like to use busy and tired to send a woman want to speak of the demands. Busy, or tired, or other, are normal, but always did not speak, no talk, no mutual comfort situation, this is not love. "As if you go home late, see the lovers not sleep, give you keep the lights, you know these, home mood will be different, you know you are waiting. In his view, that is, You sleepy, you wait, you are tired, I may not be able to come back early. "(Reference letter) The details of the lamp, I understand. "Sleepy sleep" logic is right, but less point. This situation he did not lead, because he did not understand this concern. He told you to sleep, maybe there is care for you, if there are half of the sentence to accept your heart, it is another scene. May express the way the problem, some people love to hide deep, bad temper is not good. this is nothing. You can first experience his goodwill, and then exchange their views.The only reliable criterion of truth is always to be consistent. But the communication barrier is more optimistic, (according to the letter listed in the other boyfriend ignored her feelings of the case) is more likely that he did not understand. He did not feel your heart, do not want to understand your worries and pay the slightest effort. Not love, is the ability problem. The so-called love ability, the so-called human feelings, that is simple, that is, understand each other understand Because understand, so share open, understanding, distressed with. Besides the girl's question. "Indecisive" "a bad feeling will not choose to let go" "has been worried about their own married" This is her description of their own. She described this feeling I am afraid that will cause a lot of girl's resonance: "And I always fear, I think I can not meet a man, can once again slowly told his own hobbies, to understand him, I always worry, so I am 25 years old to go blind date, the man Is in the arms of others grew up, we respect each other, weighing all aspects of the interests and conditions together, not do not like, but add a lot of things that kind of love is not enough to let you give up some things, let you go , Young blazing feelings can not let me fear the heart slightly more stable, not to mention the feelings of the future like that? I may say that may be cruel, but it is so: fear, anxiety, insecurity, attempting to rely on others, by a love of salvation, are more shattered. We can seek the help of others, but ultimately can only rely on their own. In fact, you choose such a person, with what kind of person you are corresponding. The other side of the problem will reflect your problem, this mutual influence and confirms your original hunch, you see is often you are afraid of the. So, the root is still your own here, want to improve the relationship you face, must start from the improvement of their own. Imagine if you are enough to cope with your own fears, and will be indecisive in bad relations? Inner construction is very difficult, but also all the details. Every time to reflect on their own experiences, every time to express the inner fear, every time to make the decision of autonomy, and each time the exchange of others. May be all. Young, honest, able to feel, there is the pursuit of good expression. This is enough. So you have the energy, assured and confidence, meet people, will be different, your world will be different. When there will still be regret, there are unsatisfactory time, there are still lonely, but you will feel that is also very good.