食食下飯要瞓低 曼姐而家3歲幾,完全將trouble 3發揮得淋漓盡致,曼曼媽日日都同佢博鬥,每日都同自己講今日要冷靜d,溫柔地同佢講,最難係同佢食飯,曼姐食飯永遠都唔可以坐定定係度,我成日都要叫佢返埋位,當你講第一次佢唔聽,我忍,講第二次,唔聽,深呼吸一下,再忍,但當第三次都唔聽,就忍無可忍,立即跳制再大聲怒吼,「你即刻同我坐低,係咪一定要我咁大聲同你講野」,然後佢就會學返我大聲同我講「唔係」,跟著就嬲爆爆坐返低,見到佢咁,我又會覺得自己唔岩,因為小朋友學野好快,我成日都同佢講「你即刻同我食飯」「你好立即同我過黎」「我數完一,二,三,我都唔見你點點點,我就會點點點」,其實佢已經深深咁印左係佢腦海入邊,有時佢都會用返呢種語氣黎同返我或者曼弟講,比如曼弟有時會企係張high chair,佢會同佢講「你好即刻同我坐好」或者直接大聲叫「你坐低」,有時我可能係廚房洗緊碗,我聽唔到佢叫我,佢會好大聲咁同我講「拿,我叫左你好多次架喇」當然呢句都係我口頭禪,有時自己都會係度反思,咁落去長遠對自己同曼姐都唔好,自己會勞氣死,曼姐就有樣學樣,而家我會學習用擁抱黎解決,每當自己想發嬲個度,我就同曼姐講,我地擁抱下先,佢會好受落,擁抱完喇,做人冷靜左,再同佢講你咁樣媽媽會唔開心,不如我地坐好好先,食完飯再玩,咁佢就會坐返低,雖然隔一陣佢都會起返身,但我相信,假以時日,我可以感化到佢。