There are certain things in this world that we will always remember. Those who have helped you, those who have been good to you, those who have given you warmth, they are like a beam of light that has illuminated us and illuminated the world. Even after many years, we still have their place in our hearts. Every time we think of it, we always unconsciously light them a lamp. My friend Dayao told me that when she was young, her family was very poor, and sometimes she did n’t get enough rice to harvest. Her grandfather would go to the neighbor's house to borrow some rice and flour, and then return it to the family as soon as the crop was harvested. But every time he pays back, Grandpa always gives a few extra pounds, or gives some neighbors some sausages, vegetables, or something. At that time, she felt very weird. It didn't matter how much she borrowed. Why give more? Grandpa explained: It is the foundation of a person's standing in society to receive favors and give back. It is also the morality of being a man. If someone treats you with three points, you must return to the house with seven points. This is a gift of affection, and it is also a cheat for warming up feelings. The philanthropy is a cherishment for them; knowing how to give back is a sublimation of true feelings. "It is not ritual to come and go; it is not ritual to come and go". If you vote for peach, I will report it to you; if you send charcoal in the snow, I will fight for justice. You can come and go, you can feel the flow of love. 2 There is an old saying that there is no relative in the heavens, and they are often good people. This means that God favors only one kind of person, that is, a kind person. In your life, you have done a lot of good things, and naturally many people will help you. Because the house of good will have Yu Qing; the house of bad will have Yu Yu. I have seen such a story: A snowy night, a young man named Kress was trapped in the suburbs because his car broke down. While he was so anxious, a man riding a horse passed by. Seeing this, without saying anything, the riding man pulled Cres's car into the town with his horse. Kress repeatedly expressed thanks and offered a lot of money as a reward. At this time, the man said: "No return is needed, but I want you to give me a promise. When someone is in trouble, you must try to help him." So in the later days, as long as anyone encounters difficulties Kress will take the initiative to help. And when others give thanks, he will also repeat the words that the man said to him. One day many years later, Kress was trapped on an isolated island by a sudden flood, and a brave boy rescued him at the risk of being swallowed by the flood. When he thanked the boy, the boy even said the words that Kress said countless times: "No return is needed, but I want you to give me a promise ..." There was a sudden surge of warmth in Kress's chest: "It turned out that the helping hand I extended when others were in trouble, turned around countless people, and finally gave it back to me after my youth. All these good things I have done in my life I did it for myself! "