The number of friends is not the most important thing. It requires both quality and quantity.For introverts, when quantity is limited, they can pursue quality.First of all, we must change the misattribution. We should not attribute the lack of friends to our own "introversion", nor does it mean that we have no merits. Only by establishing a correct understanding and understanding yourself can you become more confident and get along with others more naturally and comfortably. Try to praise the strengths and talents of others, even if they are a "nice person." Introverts may find it difficult to laugh or express themselves verbally. But sometimes a few words and exquisite praise may make others feel a strong sense of appreciation. Due to the role of psychological projection, the other party will also have a good impression of you.Nowadays, more and more people are making friends online, and with tools like online communities, they can find people with the same hobbies as themselves. For example, if you like to learn calligraphy, you can join a calligraphy group. If you like reading, join a reading group. The friends you meet in this way may be of higher quality.Introverts may internally feel that dealing with people is mentally draining, so they may be more pragmatic. Try "pragmatic friends" to find people who can help and cooperate with each other, and can also be very good friends. Such friends will not make you waste your energy, but will make you feel more powerful.Introverts definitely don't like performing in public. But the existence of the Internet, especially the emergence of self-media, has lowered the threshold for self-expression. You can perform your talents without showing your face, letting more people know you and more people will like you.
